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New Year is Coming: 9 Tips for A New Start

New Year is Coming: 9 Tips for A New Start

The new year is coming. So New Year’s resolutions are the perfect opportunity for the people to make a new start. Here are some tips about how to change your life and how to improve yourself. It’s the right time to make a new start.

  1. Lose Weight

Losing weight is the top wish for many people. Also, “exercise more” and “stay fit and healthy” it is something that over a third of the population wishes to achieve. It’s easy enough to start an exercise and diet program, but the trick is to find a decent one that will give you steady results and will be easy to stick to in the long run.

Also, learn to control emotional eating, be aware of reasons for diets to fail and discover healthy recipes.

  1. Become Confident

If you are confident other people notice it, and it is much easier to have your opinions heard. Self-confidence will help you lead a much happier life overall. Boost your confidence and your life will change.

  1. Make Money

You can use an additional source of income to make life a bit more comfortable. There are plenty of options available, like having side jobs, working as a freelancer or using the internet to your advantage. Build a work from home business.

  1. Reduce Stress

Stress is one of the biggest killers for the people, and it can have a very destructive effect on your relationships and your health. It may be an unavoidable side effect of our modern lifestyle.

You can manage it with the help of useful and easy to practice tricks for stress management.

  1. Avoid TV

Many people waste a lot of time in front of the TV, time that could have been better spent developing skills, learning or keeping your body active. Once you manage to cut down on TV time, you will realize just how long and productive a day can be. Open your mind and turn-off tv.

  1. Read Books

Books are an excellent way to gain a lot of knowledge on a huge variety of topics and are also a great exercise for your brain. You need to make it a habit, discover your type of books and find a bit of time for reading.

  1. Learn a new language

Not only will learning a new language help improve your communication skills, but it will also look great on your resume and possibly open up some doors for you. These days there are plenty of resources that allow you to learn a language for free and in your spare time.

  1. Travel More

You’ll need to have money and goodwill. Invest some time and effort before you consider traveling across the globe, but there are ways of experiencing different cultures and visiting faraway places even on a tighter budget.

  1. Reinvent Yourself

If you don’t feel quite happy no matter what you do, it is perhaps time to make some serious changes in your life. Reinventing yourself can give you a whole new perspective on life and take you in directions you may never have dreamed were possible.

There are many tips and tricks to make some long-term changes in your life. I wish you a Happy New Year.

New Year – New Life: Tips to Reduce Stress and Improve Your Life

New Year - New Life: Tips to Reduce Stress and Improve Your Life
New Year – New Life: Tips to Reduce Stress and Improve Your Life

Stress can be damaging and in fact, too much stress can put your health at risk. If you have been living a stressful life these days, then finding some ways and tips to reduce stress can be a good move. Here are some tips on how to reduce stress and improve your life.

1. Deep Breathing. One of the easiest ways to help you manage stress anywhere and any time is to practice deep breathing or breathing with the diaphragm. Like singing, you can draw air from your diaphragm, letting the negative energies out.

2. Massage. A very effective tip to reduce stress is to get a massage. Just make sure you get someone who is a professional so that you will be ensured that you are given the proper massage.

3. Vacation. If you feel like you have been burnt out with your work, then you might want to go for a weeklong vacation to some quiet beach to help you de-stress. Just make sure to plan your vacation well so that you will not be adding more stress to your already stressful life.

4. Try acupuncture or acupressure. These ancient Chinese techniques are not only known to help you get rid of stress in your life but also improves blood circulation which is, of course, another good practice to promote good health.

5. Meditation. Meditation is also another good way to practice deep relaxation and manage stress as well so why not learn this great practice that can also improve your concentration and focus which you can also use in your day to day work.

6. Walk regularly. Walking is a great exercise that can also help you get rid of everyday stress. Another thing that makes walking appealing is that it can also help you boost your metabolism and of course, help you maintain a healthy weight as well.

7. Go to the gym or join a fitness boot camp. Another one of the tips to reduce stress is to go to the gym especially if you do not have the space for walking or you are in the middle of the bustling city. If you find the gym too dull, you can also join a fitness boot camp especially if you are also looking for ways to get into shape.

8. Take dance lessons. Dancing is a good de-stressor and join one if your passion is dancing.

9. Volunteer. If you feel you have been running after deadlines and appointments each day and you have been in the rat race for most of your life that you haven’t even felt good about yourself, go out and volunteer. Helping others is a fulfilling task and you will be truly amazed at how it can do wonders on your happiness.

Self Improvement – 4 Tips You Need To Know

It is easier than you might think. There are folks struggling along with their life stressed out and unhappy with themselves. They want a change for the positive but yet can not seem to get on track to make things what they truly want for themselves.

Here are 4 tips to improve your self

* You need to know what you want to get out of your life in all areas of your life. What type of career, relationships, home, car, etc… You need to be specific about each of these items.

* You need to write out what it would take to change your life from where it is now to where you want to be.

* Start telling others what you want to achieve. This does a couple of things it takes your dream out of your mind and starts the first steps to making it come to life. This also starts letting you know who is in support of what you want so they can help cheer you on in your endeavor.

* The most important thing for you to do is start taking action toward achieving your things on your list. You need to make it fun for yourself do not think of it as work but rather a fun adventure to making some exciting changes for yourself.

The first step is the hardest and that is just getting started so that you are not just talking about wanting something different. The first step is very important if you want to succeed. Take Action and Never Give Up!

New Year: Psychological Self Improvement Tips

New Year: Psychological Self Improvement Tips
New Year: Psychological Self Improvement Tips

The New Year is coming and everyone is ready to make their resolutions. Self-improvement is often a favorite resolution. Here are some self-improvement tips to help you start the New Year.

1. Stay positive. Make it a resolution to do away with negative self-talk this year. No more “I can’t” and more “I can”. Positive self-talks automatically program your mind in the direction of success.

2. Stay dressed for success. A new haircut or a fresh shave and decent looking clothes will create a positive and energetic air around you. This works even on those days you aren’t feeling at your best.

3. Stand straight. If you’re going to think positive and dress positive, stand up as you mean it. Sloppy posture is a sign of weakness. Keep that back straight on your path to success this year.

4. Set specific goals. Instead of “I want to lose weight this year”, you should write down “I want to lose 10 pounds in the next 2 months.” The mind can help your body reach specific goals much more efficiently.

5. Post your plans. Keep your plans and specific goals written and posted where you can see them every day. Take time to read and review them on a regular basis. Keep reviewing and adding to your list so you will continue moving forward.

6. Celebrate and reward. Find a way to celebrate when you have reached any of the self-improvement goals you have set out for the new year. Reward adds more value to your efforts and increases your motivation to continue.

Psychological Self-improvement: How to overcome fear

People are usually afraid of negative things. They are afraid of self-improvement because of this fear. Psychological self-improvement may help you in this situation.

In psychological self-improvement, The best way to remove this fear is to understand that life is always in the cycle of ups and downs. No one is permanently up or permanently down. Remember that no one can avoid these ups and downs even the most famous Hollywood stars.

What we should do about these downs is to learn from it and not to avoid it. We should learn how to handle our problems for our psychological self-improvement.

Problems affect us every day. We should never lose hope in figuring out solutions to these problems. All we need is to learn how to overcome it and not to be overcome.

Problems can never be overcome but we can learn from them. This is where Psychology plays an important role.

Psychologists say that we should always be careful in our decisions concerning our problems. We should handle our problems properly and learn how to deal with it. Learning from mistakes helps us in preparing ourselves for psychological self-improvement

There are a lot of myths about every event in our lives is due to pre-determined reason. Another belief says that what we encounter in our lives today is our preparation for other things that may come in our lives. To understand what may happen to us in the future, we must learn from the present.

With all that, it is also true that the unexpected can happen anytime. However, you should keep in mind that psychological self-improvement is not always for the worse and consequently, you must never let go of a chance, because you are afraid to take the risk.

Remember that, from time to time, something has to happen in order to free you from monotony, so you shouldn’t be surprised if, at a certain moment in time, instead of being afraid of change, you desire it with all your heart.

Here are some tips to help you move forward

Just think of the positive impacts results from the psychological self-improvement. Know important they are and reflect on how to increase them, by adding some other good aspects, which need certain assistance.

Try to picture somebody else in your situation, as picturing ourselves in a less desirable position, always looks more dramatic than it really is. If you realize that the other person can handle the change, you can be sure you’ll be able to handle it as well. This is good psychological self-improvement.

Think of the worst situation that can result after the self-improvement. Try to find various solutions to it. Reflect on how much you can lose, if the worst happened, and how important those things are to you. If you find more than one reasonable solution, you are safe and the self-improvement can’t be stronger than you are!

Self-improvement is not bad at all. All we need is to learn how to handle some negative changes. We should also reflect from it to learn and use it in the future events that we may encounter. This could be your ultimate psychological self-improvement.

New Year – New Life: Motivation and Action

New Year - New Life: Motivation and Action
New Year – New Life: Motivation and Action

 

The New Year is for many of us a reason to change something in our lives. If you look in a magazine, or in the adverts in the media or on the web, there are resolutions everywhere: improve your image, lose weight, improve your diet, stop smoking, go to the gym, start a new hobby, etc.

But if we want to keep our resolutions, we need motivation and action

A very important factor is ‘why’ we decide to make that resolution. The ‘why’ determines the motivation; it is what will enable us to keep going even when the going gets tough. But ‘why’ has also to be effective.

If we make a resolution because everybody else does, or if we make a resolution because we have to, the chances are that we are not really motivated to keep it. And if we do not keep it, the chances are that we beat ourselves up for that.

So, in order to make an effective resolution, it has to be first of all our choice, and it is also very important how and why we decide to make that choice. We need motivation and action.

Have you made your resolutions yet? Why have you decided to make these particular changes? Have you chosen to make them for yourself or are you pleasing someone else? Do you think that if you are pleasing someone else, you will be able to follow through with your resolution?

If you have chosen to make the resolution for yourself, how have you chosen it? Let’s consider, for example, a new hobby. Have you decided to start a new hobby, because …everybody else does? Or have you chosen it because it is in your life plan?

If you decide to do something because other people are doing it, do you think you will have the long-term motivation to follow it through?

The truth is that if we want real motivation for something, it has to be part of the overall vision of our ideal life, of our perfect life, of the life that would make you truly happy and fulfilled.

Clarity actually counts for 80% of success.

If you don’t know what you want, you need to get clarity on the true desires of your heart, because if you know what you want, you can create it. So, what would your ideal life be? Do you have a mental picture of your ideal life?

If you don’t have it, create it and imagine you’re looking at it, and what you would have in all the different areas of your life – spiritual, emotional, mental, physical, relational, financial?

Now, if you have that mental picture, what you need to do is to simply modify your present life to create that picture.

And furthermore, if you know what your ideal life would look like, and you know the changes you need to make in order to create it when you decide to make those changes, how strongly do you think your motivation is going to be? What do you think you will feel, knowing that the changes you are going to make will create the life of your dreams? Do you think you will be motivated enough to follow through?

This is working smartly.

So, the recipe for true motivation is:

Decide what you want in your life, get clarity on your ideal life, see it, and create a mental picture of what you would see, how you would feel, what you would hear; see yourself living your ideal life, as if your ideal life is already happening NOW, and decide to make the changes necessary to create that picture.

You can do it; in fact, you can create anything you truly want.

Self Improvement and Success

Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self-improvement and success.

So, when does self-improvement become synonymous with success? Some tips you need to know.

*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOU?

*When you see models on TV, think more on self-improvement, not self-pitying. Self-acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty.

*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.

*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There’s always the next time. Make rooms for self-improvement.

*Take things one at a time. Self-improvement is a long-term process.

* Self-improvement results to inner stability, personality development and success. It comes from self-confidence and self-esteem.

* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self-improvement doesn’t turn you to be the exact replica of a very successful actor or businessman. It hopes and aims to result in an improved and better YOU.

*Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people.

When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.

*When you’re willing to accept change and go through the process of self-improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of different values and attitude hang out.

Sometimes, even if you think you and your best friend always like to do the same thing together at the same time, he would most likely decline an invitation for self-improvement.

We should always remember that there’s no such thing as ‘overnight success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for. A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”

We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, neighbors… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self-improvement, we increase our chances to become successful and happy.